1. The relationship should be natural, easy
and uncomplicated: The truth is that all relationships take time,
effort, commitment and energy. You need to make time for each other, to
do fun things together, to work on communication, and to learn to
negotiate and compromise.
2. The relationship should be conflict free:
Because we are each individual and unique we all disagree with others at
times, so conflict is natural, and not to be feared. In fact, conflict
can force us to confront our differences, and to grow as individuals,
and as couples too.
3. Soul mates are romantic: Real life is not
the movies, and love can be expressed in countless different ways, and
still be genuine. Look out for all the signs that show your partner
cares, and don’t be disappointed if they’re not “the stereotype”. Don’t force them to be something that is maybe nor their style.
4. You should always see things the same way
and have the same opinions, outlooks and beliefs: You both have
different backgrounds and have individual brains so you’re going to
sometimes differ in the way you look at life. That needn’t be a problem –
you don’t want to be clones.
5. My soul mate will always like and love me:
Consideration, respect and a concern for your partner are symptoms of a
loving relationship. But being rude and disrespectful or irresponsible
are not endearing qualities that build relationships. Instead, we need
to give to get – as it’s not “all about me”.
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